الكافي- ط الاسلامية — Volume 5, Page 509
[١]التبتل: الانقطاع من النساء و ترك النكاح و امرأة بتول منقطعة عن الرجال لا شهوة لها فيهم و بها سميت مريم أم المسيح عليهما السلام، و سميت فاطمة عليها السلام البتول لانقطاعها عن نساء زمانها فضلا و دينا و حسبا.( النهاية)
Same indexed hadith alkafi-10138; it ends on this printed page after beginning on pages 508-509.
إِنَّ امْرَأَةً أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ص لِبَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ فَقَالَ لَهَا لَعَلَّكِ مِنَ الْمُسَوِّفَاتِ قَالَتْ وَ مَا الْمُسَوِّفَاتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ الْمَرْأَةُ الَّتِي يَدْعُوهَا زَوْجُهَا لِبَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ فَلَا تَزَالُ تُسَوِّفُهُ حَتَّى يَنْعُسَ زَوْجُهَا وَ يَنَامَ فَتِلْكَ لَا تَزَالُ الْمَلَائِكَةُ تَلْعَنُهَا حَتَّى يَسْتَيْقِظَ زَوْجُهَا.
2. It is narrated from the narrator of the previous Hadith from Musa ibn al-Qasim from abu Jamilah from Durays al-Kunasiy from Abu ‘Abdillah (a.s.) who said: "Once a woman came to the Messenger of Allah (sw) for a certain need and he said to her, ‘Perhaps you are of the Musawwifat .’ She asked, ‘And what is the Musawwifat, O Messenger of Allah?’ He replied, ‘It is a woman whose husband calls her for something that he needs but she procrastinates until her husband begins to slumber and goes to sleep. The angels continue cursing her until her husband wakes up.’"
Translation: Muhammad Sarwar·Thaqalayn link·The Arabic above is the original.
نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَتَبَتَّلْنَ وَ يُعَطِّلْنَ أَنْفُسَهُنَّ مِنَ الْأَزْوَاجِ.
1. Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from ibn Mahbub from ibn Ri’ab from ibn abu Ya’fur who has said the following: “Abu Ja‘far (a.s.), has said that the Messenger of Allah, O Allah, grant compensation to Muhammad and his family worthy of their services to Your cause, prohibited women from ignoring themselves due to laziness and turning themselves of no benefit for their husbands.’”
Translation: Muhammad Sarwar·Thaqalayn link·The Arabic above is the original.
[1]التبتل: الانقطاع من النساء و ترك النكاح و امرأة بتول منقطعة عن الرجال لا شهوة لها فيهم و بها سميت مريم أم المسيح عليهما السلام، و سميت فاطمة عليها السلام البتول لانقطاعها عن نساء زمانها فضلا و دينا و حسبا.( النهاية)ص 509
لَا يَنْبَغِي لِلْمَرْأَةِ أَنْ تُعَطِّلَ نَفْسَهَا وَ لَوْ تُعَلِّقُ فِي عُنُقِهَا قِلَادَةً وَ لَا يَنْبَغِي أَنْ تَدَعَ يَدَهَا مِنَ الْخِضَابِ وَ لَوْ تَمْسَحُهَا مَسْحاً بِالْحِنَّاءِ وَ إِنْ كَانَتْ مُسِنَّةً.
2. Ibn Mahbub has narrated from al-‘ Ala’ from Muhammad ibn Muslim who has said the following: “Abu Ja‘far (a.s.), has said, ‘It is not proper for women to neglect themselves even from hanging a necklace from their necks. It is not proper for women to leave their hands without dye even if they are old.’”
Translation: Muhammad Sarwar·Thaqalayn link·The Arabic above is the original.
دَخَلَتِ امْرَأَةٌ عَلَى أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع فَقَالَتْ أَصْلَحَكَ اللَّهُ إِنِّي امْرَأَةٌ مُتَبَتِّلَةٌ فَقَالَ وَ مَا التَّبَتُّلُ عِنْدَكِ قَالَتْ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ قَالَ وَ لِمَ قَالَتْ أَلْتَمِسُ بِذَلِكَ الْفَضْلَ فَقَالَ انْصَرِفِي فَلَوْ كَانَ ذَلِكِ فَضْلًا لَكَانَتْ فَاطِمَةُ ع أَحَقَّ بِهِ مِنْكِ إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ أَحَدٌ يَسْبِقُهَا إِلَى الْفَضْلِ.
3. A number of our people have narrated from Ahmad ibn abu ‘Abd Allah from ‘Abd al-Samad ibn Bashir who has said the following: “Once, a woman came to abu ‘Abd Allah (a.s.), and said, ‘I pray to Allah to keep you well, I am a celibate woman.’ He (the Imam) asked, ‘What does that mean to you?’ She replied, ‘I do not marry.’ He (the Imam) asked, ‘Why do you not marry?’ She replied, ‘I seek thereby excellence.’ He (the Imam) said, ‘You must change your mind. Had that been anything of excellence, Fatimah, ‘Alayha al-Salam, would have been more deserving of it than you because no one could succeed against her to excel.’”
Translation: Muhammad Sarwar·Thaqalayn link·The Arabic above is the original.
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص أَ يَضْرِبُ أَحَدُكُمُ الْمَرْأَةَ ثُمَّ يَظَلُّ مُعَانِقَهَا.
1. Humayd ibn Ziyad has narrated from al-Hassan ibn Muhammad ibn Sama‘ah from more than one person from Aban from abu Maryam who has said the folio wing: “Abu Ja‘far (a.s.), has said that the Messenger of Allah, O Allah, grant compensation to Muhammad and his family worthy of their services to Your cause, has said, ‘How can one of you hurt the woman whom he continues to embrace? 5 ”
Translation: Muhammad Sarwar·Thaqalayn link·The Arabic above is the original.