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قُلْتُ لَهُ إِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً وَ إِنَّ أَبَوَيَّ أَرَادَا غَيْرَهَا قَالَ تَزَوَّجِ الَّتِي هَوِيتَ وَ دَعِ الَّتِي يَهْوَى أَبَوَاكَ[2].
‘Marry the one you love, not the one your parents love.”’
A Man Loves a Woman, His Parents Want Another Woman
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Love of Women10With Marriage Sustenance Increases7Mahr (dower) in this form of Marriage, al-Mut‘ah5Waiting Period in al-Mut‘ah (advantageous marriage)3Addition in Time3Permissible Time Length5Al-Mut‘ah (advantageous marriage) Several Times with one Woman2Withholding Mahr in the Case of Her Violation5Her Statement about Her is Considered True2Virgins5Marriage with Slave Girls4Child Conceived3
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النِّكَاحُ جَائِزٌ إِنْ شَاءَ الْمُتَزَوِّجُ قَبِلَ وَ إِنْ شَاءَ تَرَكَ فَإِنْ تَرَكَ الْمُتَزَوِّجُ تَزْوِيجَهُ فَالْمَهْرُ لَازِمٌ لِأُمِّهِ.
“Once, abu Ja’far (a.s.), was asked about the case of a man whose mother arranged marriage for him in his absence. He (the Imam) said, ‘Marriage is permissible, the husband may agree or disagree; and if he disagrees payment of mahr (dower) becomes due on his mother.’”