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Chapter on the Virtue of Children

No. ٤٦٨٨chapter #1vol. 3 · page 481
faqih-4682

فِي رِوَايَةِ السَّكُونِيِّ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص‌ الْوَلَدُ الصَّالِحُ رَيْحَانَةٌ مِنْ رَيَاحِينِ الْجَنَّةِ.

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Hadith.4688 - In the narration of Al-Sakooni, the Messenger of Allah (swt) (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "A righteous child is a flower from the flowers of Paradise."

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[2]رواه الكليني ج 6 ص 3 في الضعيف عن السكونى عن أبي عبد اللّه عليه السلام عنه صلّى اللّه عليه و آله.ص 481

No. ٤٦٩١chapter #4vol. 3 · page 481
faqih-4685

رُوِيَ‌ أَنَّ مَنْ مَاتَ بِلَا خَلَفٍ فَكَأَنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِي النَّاسِ وَ مَنْ مَاتَ وَ لَهُ خَلَفٌ فَكَأَنْ لَمْ يَمُتْ.

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Hadith.4691 - It is narrated: "Whoever dies without leaving behind a successor, it is as if he was never among the people. And whoever dies and leaves behind a successor, it is as if he never died."

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No. ٤٦٩٢chapter #5vol. 3 · page 481
faqih-4686

رَوَى أَبَانُ بْنُ تَغْلِبَ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ع قَالَ:

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الْبَنَاتُ حَسَنَاتٌ وَ الْبَنُونَ نِعْمَةٌ فَالْحَسَنَاتُ يُثَابُ عَلَيْهَا وَ النِّعْمَةُ يُسْأَلُ عَنْهَا.

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Hadith.4692 - Aban ibn Taghlib narrated from Abu Abdullah (as) who said: "Daughters are good deeds, and sons are blessings. Good deeds are rewarded, and blessings are questioned about."

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No. ٤٦٩٣chapter #6vol. 3 · page 481
faqih-4687

وَ بُشِّرَ النَّبِيُّ ص بِابْنَةٍ فَنَظَرَ فِي وُجُوهِ أَصْحَابِهِ فَرَأَى الْكَرَاهَةَ فِيهِمْ فَقَالَ مَا لَكُمْ رَيْحَانَةٌ أَشَمُّهَا وَ رِزْقُهَا عَلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ وَ كَانَ ع أَبَا بَنَاتٍ‌.

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Hadith.4693 - The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) was given the glad tidings of a daughter. He (sw) looked at the faces of his companions and saw displeasure in them. He (sw) said: "What is the matter with you? She is a sweet flower (rayḥanah) that I smell, and her sustenance is upon Allah (swt), the Mighty and Majestic." And Prophet (as) was a father of daughters.

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[3]روى الكليني في القوى عن الجارود بن المنذر قال:« قال لي أبو عبد اللّه عليه السلام: بلغني أنّه ولد لك ابنة فتسخطها و ما عليك منها، ريحانة تشمها، و قد كفيت رزقها، و قد كان رسول اللّه صلّى اللّه عليه و آله أبا بنات».ص 481

No. ٤٦٩٤chapter #7vol. 3 · page 482
faqih-4688

قَالَ عَلِيٌّ ع‌ فِي الْمَرَضِ يُصِيبُ الصَّبِيَّ إِنَّهُ كَفَّارَةٌ لِوَالِدَيْهِ.

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Hadith.4694 - Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (as) said: "When a child falls ill, it serves as an expiation for the sins of the parents."

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No. ٤٦٩٦chapter #9vol. 3 · page 482
faqih-4690

قَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ إِنَّ لِي بَنَاتٍ فَقَالَ لَعَلَّكَ تَتَمَنَّى مَوْتَهُنَّ أَمَا إِنَّكَ إِنْ تَمَنَّيْتَ مَوْتَهُنَّ وَ مِتْنَ لَمْ تُؤْجَرْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَ لَقِيتَ رَبَّكَ حِينَ تَلْقَاهُ وَ أَنْتَ عَاصٍ.

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Hadith.4696 - Umar ibn Yazid said to Imam Jafar ibn Muhammad Al-Sadiq (as): "I have daughters." The Imam (as) replied: "Perhaps you wish for their death? Know that if you wish for their death and they die, you will not be rewarded on the Day of Judgment, and you will meet your Lord (azj) while being disobedient to Him (swt)."

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No. ٤٦٩٧chapter #10vol. 3 · page 482
faqih-4691

رَوَى حَمْزَةُ بْنُ حُمْرَانَ بِإِسْنَادِهِ‌ أَنَّهُ أَتَى رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ص وَ عِنْدَهُ رَجُلٌ فَأَخْبَرَهُ بِمَوْلُودٍ لَهُ فَتَغَيَّرَ لَوْنُ الرَّجُلِ فَقَالَ

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النَّبِيُّ ص مَا لَكَ قَالَ خَيْرٌ قَالَ قُلْ قَالَ خَرَجْتُ وَ الْمَرْأَةُ تَمْخَضُ فَأُخْبِرْتُ أَنَّهَا وَلَدَتْ جَارِيَةً فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ص الْأَرْضُ تُقِلُّهَا وَ السَّمَاءُ تُظِلُّهَا وَ اللَّهُ يَرْزُقُهَا وَ هِيَ رَيْحَانَةٌ تَشَمُّهَا ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَى أَصْحَابِهِ فَقَالَ مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ ابْنَةٌ وَاحِدَةٌ فَهُوَ مَقْرُوحٌ‌ وَ مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ ابْنَتَانِ فَيَا غَوْثَاهْ بِاللَّهِ وَ مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ وُضِعَ عَنْهُ الْجِهَادُ وَ كُلُّ مَكْرُوهٍ وَ مَنْ كَانَ لَهُ أَرْبَعُ بَنَاتٍ فَيَا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ أَعِينُوهُ يَا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ أَقْرِضُوهُ يَا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ ارْحَمُوهُ.

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Hadith.4697 - Hamzah ibn Humran narrated through his chain of transmission that a man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) while another man was sitting with Him (sw). The man informed the Prophet (sw) about the birth of his child, and the color of the man's face changed. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) asked him: "What is the matter with you?" The man replied: "It's nothing." The Prophet (sw) said: "Speak." The man said: "I left while my wife was in labor, and I was informed that she gave birth to a daughter." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said to him: "The earth will carry her, the sky will shade her, and Allah (swt) will provide for her. She is a sweet flower that you will smell." Then the Prophet (sw) turned to his companions and said: "Whoever has one daughter will be burdened with care. Whoever has two daughters, then seek help from Allah (swt) for him. Whoever has three daughters, the obligation of jihad and every hardship is lifted from him. And whoever has four daughters, O servants of Allah (swt), help him! O servants of Allah (swt), support him! O servants of Allah (swt), have mercy on him!"

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[1]كذا و في الكافي« فهو مفدوح» و فدحه الدين- كمنعه-: أثقله، و المفدوح ذو التعب، و فوادح الدهر: خطوبه.ص 482

No. ٤٦٩٨chapter #11vol. 3 · page 482
faqih-4692

قَالَ ع‌ مَنْ عَالَ ثَلَاثَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ ثَلَاثَ أَخَوَاتٍ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَ اثْنَتَيْنِ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَ وَاحِدَةً قَالَ وَ وَاحِدَةً.

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Hadith.4698 - The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "Whoever takes care of three daughters or three sisters, Paradise becomes obligatory for him." It was asked: "O Messenger of Allah (swt), what about two?" He (sw) replied: "And two (meaning same reward)." It was asked: "O Messenger of Allah (swt), and one?" He (sw) said: "And one (meaning same reward)."

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No. ٤٧٠٠chapter #13vol. 3 · page 482
faqih-4694

قَالَ الصَّادِقُ ع

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إِذَا أَصَابَ الرَّجُلُ ابْنَةً بَعَثَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ إِلَيْهَا مَلَكاً فَأَمَرَّ جَنَاحَهُ عَلَى رَأْسِهَا وَ صَدْرِهَا وَ قَالَ ضَعِيفَةٌ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضَعْفٍ الْمُنْفِقُ عَلَيْهَا مُعَانٌ

No. ٤٧٠١chapter #14vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4695

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص

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اعْلَمُوا أَنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ يَلْقَى سِقْطَهُ مُحْبَنْطِئاً عَلَى بَابِ الْجَنَّةِ حَتَّى إِذَا رَآهُ أَخَذَ بِيَدِهِ حَتَّى يُدْخِلَهُ الْجَنَّةَ وَ إِنَّ وَلَدَ أَحَدِكُمْ إِذَا مَاتَ أُجِرَ فِيهِ وَ إِنْ بَقِيَ بَعْدَهُ اسْتَغْفَرَ لَهُ بَعْدَ مَوْتِهِ

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[1]المحبنطئ: الممتلئ غيظا، و المستبطئ للشي‌ء.ص 483

No. ٤٧٠٢chapter #15vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4696

قَالَ ع‌ أَحِبُّوا الصِّبْيَانَ وَ ارْحَمُوهُمْ وَ إِذَا وَعَدْتُمُوهُمْ فَفُوا لَهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ لَا يَرَوْنَ إِلَّا أَنَّكُمْ تَرْزُقُونَهُمْ.

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Hadith.4702 - The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "Love the children and have mercy on them. When you promise them something, fulfill it for them, for they only perceive that you are the ones who provide for them."

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No. ٤٧٠٣chapter #16vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4697

رَوَى رِفَاعَةُ بْنُ مُوسَى عَنْ أَبِي الْحَسَنِ ع قَالَ:

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سَأَلْتُهُ عَنِ الرَّجُلِ يَكُونُ لَهُ بَنُونَ وَ أُمُّهُمْ لَيْسَتْ بِوَاحِدَةٍ أَ يُفَضِّلُ أَحَدَهُمْ عَلَى الْآخَرِ قَالَ نَعَمْ لَا بَأْسَ بِهِ وَ قَدْ كَانَ أَبِي ع يُفَضِّلُنِي عَلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ.

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Hadith.4703 - Rifa'ah ibn Musa narrated from Abu Al-Hasan (as) who said: I asked him about a man who has sons from different mothers, can he favor one of them over the others? Imam (as) replied: "Yes, there is no harm in that. My father (as) used to favor me over Abdullah."

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No. ٤٧٠٤chapter #17vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4698

فِي رِوَايَةِ السَّكُونِيِّ قَالَ: نَظَرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ص إِلَى رَجُلٍ لَهُ ابْنَانِ فَقَبَّلَ أَحَدَهُمَا وَ تَرَكَ الْآخَرَ فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ص فَهَلَّا وَاسَيْتَ بَيْنَهُمَا.

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Hadith.4704 - In the narration of Al-Sakooni, it is reported that the Messenger of Allah (swt) (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) saw a man who had two sons. The man kissed one of them and left the other. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said to him, "Why did you not treat them equally?"

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[2]قال الفاضل التفرشى: ينبغي حمله على ما إذا فضل أحدهما على الآخر و لم يكن له فضل عليه في نفس الامر و يحزن الآخر من ذلك، و الحديث السابق يحمل على ما إذا كان للمفضل فضل أو لم يحزن المفضل عليه من تفضيل الآخر عليه، و يمكن الجمع أيضا بحمل الحديث الأول على التفضيل في المحبة، و لعلّ المواساة هنا ضمنت معنى التسوية بقرينة تعلّقها ببين.ص 483

No. ٤٧٠٥chapter #18vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4699

قَالَ ع‌ يَلْزَمُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مِنْ عُقُوقِ الْوَلَدِ مَا يَلْزَمُ الْوَلَدَ لَهُمَا مِنَ الْعُقُوقِ.

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Hadith.4705 - Imam (as) said: "Parents are held accountable for disobedience toward their children just as children are held accountable for disobedience toward their parents."

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No. ٤٧٠٦chapter #19vol. 3 · page 483
faqih-4700

قَالَ الصَّادِقُ ع

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بِرُّ الرَّجُلِ بِوَلَدِهِ بِرُّهُ بِوَالِدَيْهِ

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[3]يمكن حمله على التشبيه البليغ أي مثل برّه بوالديه في الحسن و ترتب الثواب عليه و على أن برّه يوجب سرور الوالدين و ان كانا قد ماتا لان الميت كثيرا ما يطلع على أحوال أهاليه و يحصل له السرور و الحزن بذلك.( مراد).ص 483

No. ٤٧٠٧chapter #20vol. 3 · pages 483-484
faqih-4701

فِي خَبَرٍ آخَرَ قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ص‌ مَنْ كَانَ عِنْدَهُ صَبِيٌ‌ فَلْيَتَصَابَ لَهُ‌.

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Hadith.4707 - In another narration, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "Whoever has a child should act childishly with him."

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[1]أي فليلعب معه كالصبيان، و صبى صباء مثل سمع سماعا أي لعب مع الصبيان، و في الكافي ج 6 ص 49 في الحسن كالصحيح عن الأصبغ عن أمير المؤمنين عليه السلام قال:« من كان له ولد صبا» أي فعل فعل الصبى.ص 484

No. ٤٧٠٨chapter #21vol. 3 · page 484
faqih-4702

قَالَ ع‌ مِنْ نِعَمِ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ عَلَى الرَّجُلِ أَنْ يُشْبِهَهُ وَلَدُهُ.

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Hadith.4708 - Imam (as) said: "Among the blessings of Allah (swt), the Mighty and Majestic, upon a man is that his child resembles him."

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No. ٤٧٠٩chapter #22vol. 3 · page 484
faqih-4703

قَالَ الصَّادِقُ ع

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إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَبَارَكَ وَ تَعَالَى إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَخْلُقَ خَلْقاً جَمَعَ كُلَّ صُورَةٍ بَيْنَهُ وَ بَيْنَ آدَمَ ثُمَّ خَلَقَهُ عَلَى صُورَةِ إِحْدَاهُنَّ فَلَا يَقُولَنَّ أَحَدٌ لِوَلَدِهِ هَذَا لَا يُشْبِهُنِي وَ لَا يُشْبِهُ شَيْئاً مِنْ آبَائِي